🌊 WEEK 4: Summer Social – Dressing for BBQs, Beach Trips & Weddings

Hey Reader,

This is Gent Within's Style Dispatch. Let's wrap up with the final week of a 4 week series on transitioning from spring to summer.

(you can refer to previous weeks here, incase you missed any).

Summer events are in full effect, and each one has its own style "rules" that you'd benefit from knowing in advance.

Here’s how to crack these dress codes without sweating buckets.

Let's get started.

🍔 BBQs & Backyard Parties

The setup & why it works

You want to be comfortable and laid back, but still the best-dressed guy by the grill.

The goal is cool, effortless summer style that doesn’t scream I tried too hard.

Your move

• Open linen button-up or camp collar shirt: Light, breathable, and gives “I just got back from vacation” energy.
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• Tailored shorts or relaxed drawstring trousers: Clean lines keep you from looking sloppy, while looser fits let you move freely, whether it’s corn hole or chasing your niece.
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• Leather sandals or white sneakers: Polished enough for socializing, practical enough for grass or deck parties.
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• Subtle bracelet or watch: 2 or 3 max. Accessories should say, I’ve got style, not I’m peacocking.

👉 Pro tip: Tuck in the shirt to elevate your look and cuff your sleeves for some stylish summer nonchalance.

🌊 Beach Days or Pool Lounging

The setup & why it works

This is one of those times it's okay to wear less, but it still shouldn’t feel sloppy.

The right fit = casual confidence with a side of sun protection.

Your move

• Mid-length swim trunks (5”-7”): Above the knee shows some thigh, but keeps it classy. Avoid any big, baggy cargo pockets at all costs. But DO go bright and bold.
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• Open shirt or breezy tank: Throw a short sleeve button up over a tee or a clean tank top when you hit the beach or cabana. Bonus if they're linen or terry cloth.
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• Slides or espadrilles: Easy on, easy off. Barefoot on the beach. Espadrilles if you’re heading to brunch afterward.
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• Shades + SPF = Non-negotiable: Style without proper skincare is a rookie mistake. Go matte sunscreen to avoid a greasy look.

👉 Vibe check: You’re not just here to swim – you’re here to be seen.

🥂 Weddings (Beach or Garden Style)

The setup & why it works

These weddings are all about elegant ease. You're outdoors, probably in the sun, possibly near sand or grass, so a heavy wool suit and stuffy oxfords? Nah.

Your move

• Lightweight suit or separates in tropical wool, cotton or linen: Breathes well, keeps you cool, and still looks sharp in photos. A blazer with odd trousers is a more advanced move, so proceed with caution.
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• Suede or leather loafers: Soft on the foot, still formal enough – plus suede plays nicely with nature-based settings.
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• Skip the tie, add a pocket square: A little sprezzatura goes a long way. You’ll look put together without overheating. Alternatively, you can ditch the pocket square all-together. After all, no pocket square is the new pocket square. 😉
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• Soft, earthy colors like dusty blue, olive green, or beige: These hues blend with the setting and photograph beautifully at golden hour.

👉 Bonus moves: If it’s a beach wedding, ditch the socks. Garden party? No-show socks only. And don't forget the shades. 😎

🗝️ Key Tip

Dress for the location, not just the occasion.

A rooftop wedding needs polish (think double monks and pocket squares). A beach ceremony? Loosen the collar, kick off your shoes, and roll with it. Context is king.

For more summer color styling inspiration, check out this article on the blog 👇.

Next Tuesday ➡️ Summer Plans? Dress Like You’re Invited.​