Best ONLINE DATING first messages & a J.Crew battle

Hey Reader,

We're approaching the end of February, can someone please slow it down?

It's been a busy few weeks here at GW HQ with the launch of my shop. Everything went off without a hitch for the most part, and I even made some sales. Best of all though, is the feeling of relief that I finally did it, and took the leap.

The world of retail and ecommerce is no joke. I have a newfound respect for all the small bootstrapped brands that have been able to carve a niche for themselves in a competitive market.

I'm taking it as inspiration and running with it. There's no telling where this journey is going to take me – the ups and downs – everything in-between, I'm looking forward to every moment.

And now onto some fresh content.

The rundown:

• Best Online Dating First Messages
• J.Crew Sussex Vest vs JCF Walker Vest
• The Antidote to Envy

Let's get to it.

ONLINE DATING

🤳 Online Dating First Messages She'll Appreciate

“Hey beautiful, how are you?”

Seen.

Uhm, okay, let’s try again.

“You’re hot. Wanna meet?”

It’s safe to say that message isn’t a success either.

​Best Online Dating First Messages She'll Appreciate Getting​

Online dating apps have taken the world by storm in recent years, and many people end up in long-term relationships as a result of meeting online.

But how do you send the best online dating messages that actually get a response? How do you stand out? And what’s the best way to break the ice with someone you’ve never even met?

Men don’t have it easy. According to research, men send first messages on dating apps three times more than women. They also have to swipe much more often to get a match, not to mention the number of women who leave you on seen.

The first message you send is crucial. Luckily, there’s a way to beat the game.

Let’s dive in!

IN REVIEW

⚔️ J.Crew Sussex Vest vs JCF Walker Vest

I’ve had my J.Crew Factory Walker vest for a handful of years now (reviewed them a while back actually), you can read that review here. And the Sussex Vest by J. Crew Mainline was acquired few years later, on sale of course.

​J. Crew Sussex Vest vs JCF Walker Vest (Which is the Better Buy?)​

This review touches on all the important areas you’ll want to know about, comparing J.Crew’s Sussex Vest and JCF’s Walker Vest in terms of fit, warmth, quality & details, durability, sizing & color options, pros & cons—and ultimately which quilted vest is the better value.

SELF-DEVELOPMENT

🧪 The Antidote to Envy

It doesn't matter who you are, we all fall victim to having feelings of envy at some point or another. It's especially easy in the social media age. Akin to jealousy, an envious state of mind is competitive in spirit and breeding grounds for a toxic way of living.

This article from More To That, muses on the antidote to envy.

For your convenience, here are the highlights:

• Envy is a common and natural emotion that arises from comparing ourselves to others and feeling like we come up short.
• However, envy can also be destructive, leading to bitterness, resentment, and a negative outlook on life.
• One way to counteract envy is to focus on gratitude and appreciation for what we have in our own lives, rather than what we lack.
• Gratitude helps us to shift our perspective from scarcity to abundance, and to recognize the many blessings and opportunities that surround us.
• Additionally, we can cultivate compassion and empathy for others, recognizing that everyone struggles and faces challenges in their own lives.
• When we see others as fellow human beings rather than as competitors or threats, we can build stronger relationships and feel more connected to our communities.
• Finally, it's important to remember that our own happiness and fulfillment doesn't depend on how we measure up to others, but on our own unique talents, values, and contributions to the world.
• By focusing on gratitude, compassion, and self-awareness, we can overcome envy and live a more fulfilling, joyful life.

📖 In Case You Missed It

• GW Clothing Co. Silk Knit Tie Unboxing & First Look​

• How to Get a Girlfriend & Win Her Heart (10 Best Tips)​

• Best Winter Coats & Jackets for Men (To Stay Stylish & Warm)​

• Why is Dating so Hard in 2023? (Here's the Truth)​

• 105 Great Hobbies for Men (Unique, Fun, Creative & Manly Ideas)​

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